Family Court Bully's, Mental & Legal Abuse, PTSD

Why is it lawyers are allowed to lie in a court room & it is acceptable as long as a judge believes it?

 Why is a judge allowed to bully someone that has a learning disability & anxiety, depression & PTSD that is caused by the family court System.
Then the lawyer says oh has he tried for legal aid. Obviously he was refused legal aid because he is a man. The woman always get the legal aid & the man is told basically to go pound sand.

The lawyer lied & said the woman had taken a day off work when in fact she is on maturity leave.

The man has not been working in 3 years because of mental health issues but is still expected to pay child support that he agreed upon when he was working.

 My advice to all men do not agree upon paying child support because if your situation changes, you get I'll or loose your job that money is going to build up & then you are going to owe all this money that you don't have. And there is no way to change it without going back to court.

 The man is though of for one thing "MONEY" Thats all that matters. Who cares about his mental health or wellbeing as long as you can torture & bully him through the family court system.

 That is all family court is. Don't dare get stressed out because you can't handle the pressure of not having a lawyer do everything for you. Don't dare tell the judge that you don't know what you are supposed to do or that you don't know what she wants you to do, don't dare say you don't have to fucking put up with this & try to leave the court because you will have bully's with uniforms charging at you like they are "GOD". When in reality they are nothing but animals.

 Then you will have those bully's down stairs charging at you try to provoke you saying don't smash the windows. Like are you fucking kidding me. You see someone stressed out just trying to get the fuck out of the court house & you are bullying him & trying to provoke him to get him to do something wrong! Well he didn't give you any reason to touch him did he? You animals must of been real disappointed! You idiots think cause you have a uniform on that gives you The right to bully someone & try to provoke them? Like I told you keep your fucking hands off my son. You think because I am a woman you were going to intimidate me. I am not scared of you Bully's & you have no right to do what you were trying to do.

 Like I told the bully security whore up stairs who was nothing but a animal charging at my son like a fucking idiot keep your fucking hands off my son. Get out of my face whore!

 Lawyers lie & it may be acceptable in the joke that we call a court house but you will answer to the higher power when it is your time you will not be going to heaven. God knows you lied. You are just another bad person that will be going to hell because it is your job "Legal Aid" to hurt people & you get paid for it with my tax dollars.

 Family court system has been broken for years all it does is hurt people & cause people heat ache & for those that do pay for lawyers like my dad had to is financial ruin. It hurts the children of those parents that leave life time scars that don't go away.

 You should not have to go through the whole court process when you have a financial issues change. It should be simple as filling papers & adjusting it. This would save a lot of people stress & heart ache & unnecessary tax dollars being wasted. Then when the other parent get a job file it again. Why do they make something that could be so easy so hard on every one.

 When you are on social assistance you pass in you pay stubs & they adjust it to what you make.
 That is how simple it should be for child support.

 I am the one that filed the papers. I will do it again & I finally have all his tax information stating he didn't work but this time I am going to take him to the doctor & get his learning disabilities noted & his medical issues . I will do the leg work & I guess I will have to pay a lawyer for the one day of the court because the court fail father's time & time again. I will not allow the family court system to abuse & bully my son the way you did to me & my father. I guess I will have to work more hours at work & money that could be spent on my granddaughter will have to go for a lawyer.

 Really discouraging to say the least that after all I went through with family court as a early teen & how they caused me to have anxiety & what I now know to be PTSD that I have to relive this trama over & over in order to try & help my son.

Really disappointed that parents can just agree to make the other person life a little less stressful over money he doesn't have. Don't understand how a parent could hate the other parent that they supposedly use to love whom they share a child or children with. I could never hate the father of my children. He is a part of them. To hate him would be hating a part of my children. Hurting the other parent does hurt the child whether you realise it or not. When my mother cause my father stress over money & lies it affected me. My father didn't tell me what was going on but I figured it out & was & still am full of resentment vthat I keep trying to get over but ever time I have to go in that court it all comes rushing back & my anxiety takes over.
I would never do this to my children or there parent or family members. Sometimes I wish the ones that do this would of had to live through what I did then they would know how & why I feel the way I do.

 How the family court system are allowed to cause people to have mental health issues & get away with it. The family court is allowed to abuse people & children & it is legal for them to do so. They did it to me & I still suffer to this day from The stress of family court. Family Court Abuse! PTSD! Anxiety & Depression! This is what you accomplish from family Court! When you purposely set out to hurt someone mentally, financially just because you can or out of hate or resentment nobody wins it just causes more harm & doesn't help anyone.

PTSD Legal Abuse Syndrome Karin Huffer

Legal Abuse Syndrome causes PTSD!

Another way in that our court system contributes to child abuse. I have PTSD from the family courts. 

I was a child in that situation! Stop abusing children’s rights! Stop abusing children!

Karin Huffer

Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS) is a form of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). It is a psychic injury, not a mental illness. It is a personal injury that develops in individuals assaulted by ethical violations, legal abuses, betrayals, and fraud. Abuse of power and authority and a profound lack of accountability in our courts have become rampant.

More Replies to my mother comments to her post!

I will do as I see fit to deal with liars like you. I don't feel one bit sorry for you because all you are is a fucking liar & I hate liars! I have no respect for you at all. You are a idiot. This is a blog not a book & I dare you to try to publish any lies about me or my father because I will so sue your ass for every thing you own you crazy bitch!
Her comment here

You are a fucking liar & I do not have to stay off your blog. It is a public blog & I am the public. My father never did any thing to me but you & Terry abused me physically, emotionally & mentally. You lie about my dad & me so I don't believe any of the other sit you have posted either. Dr Snow probably never even touched you either! I know when you asked me if he touched me you wanted me to say yes so that you could of sued him for more money! But he never touched me & he probably never touched you either because you are a liar!

Also you have no right to call your self a "MOTHER"...lol What a joke! You don't know the first thing about being a mother! I don't have a mother!

More twisted lies from you...If I had any anger issues it is because I had to have a mother like you that let her boyfriend beat me all the time with a belt! This is why I do not speak to you! All the lies you say. This is why I will never speak to you again no mater what the circumstances are! I am far better off with no mother! If you thought any thing of your children you would not make up lies about them to get back @ their fathers! I love my dad but I can not say the same thing to you! I have NO MOTHER!
Her comment here

Is your child being with held from you? Here is reserch I did that may help you:)

If a parent is with holding your children from you & the judge has awarded you visitation rights then first off the parent is breaching the court order!

In most cases the judge will frown upon this. The Judge is the only one with the right to change the court order for visitation.

First you need to do a lot of reading & go to the family court building bring a motion & file a affidavit.

Help can be found here:

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/Parenting_Affidavit_Self-Help_Guide-EN.pdf

Other Links that may help:

APPLYING FOR AN ACCESS ENFORCEMENT ORDER

IN THE COURT OF QUEEN’S BENCH

http://www.albertacourts.ab.ca/qb/publication/access_enforcement_order_qb.htm

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/custody_and_access

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/uploads/file/pdfs/Applying_for_CAS_EN.pdf

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/publications/family_law/self_help_guides_family/Applying_for_Custody_Access_and_Support_EN.pdf

https://www.pxw1.snb.ca/snb7001/e/1000/CSS-FOL-SNB-45-0161E.pdf

AFFIDAVIT IN SUPPORT OF CLAIM FOR CUSTODY OR ACCESS

http://www.gnb.ca/0062/regs/Form/Form-81b-e.pdf

Obtaining Reliable and Repeatable SSAG Calculations

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/calc/pdf/orrssagc.pdf

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines: Report on Revisions

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/s-p/index.html

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/s-p/pdf/rr_eng.pdf

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,

1985 (Part 1)

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/documents/rogerson/spousal_child_support_part_1.pdf

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,

1985 (Part 11)

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/documents/rogerson/spousal_child_support_part_2.pdf

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/faculty_content.asp?profile=48&perpage=188&cType=facMembers&itemPath=1/3/4/0/0

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/intro.html

Carol Rogerson's Scholarly Papers (Family Law)

http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=88054

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court 

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/fc/default.asp

Going To Court

http://www.themodernwomansdivorceguide.com/moderndivorce/articles/going-to-court/

Contempt of court

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contempt_of_court

Divorse Articles

http://www.peterhaiman.com/articles/protecting-a-childs-emotional-development-when-parents-divorce.shtml

http://www.nncc.org/parent/childview.html

http://smartdivorce.com/articles/childview.shtml

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/3645040/A-childs-eye-view-of-divorce.html

http://www.naturalchild.org/guest/peter_haiman3.html

http://www.nytimes.com/1995/05/25/garden/l-a-child-s-view-of-divorce-066095.html

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/children_divorce.htm

http://www.cba.org/bc/public_media/rights/238.aspx

http://blogs.extension.iastate.edu/scienceofparenting/tag/spoil/

Complying with orders about children

http://www.familylawcourts.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/FLC/Home/Court+Orders/Complying+with+orders+about+children/

Breaches (Contravention) & Enforcement of Parenting Orders

http://www.thefamilylawdirectory.com.au/article/breaches-contravention-enforcement-of-parenting-orders-the-family-law-directory.html

My ex-partner isn't following the court orders about our children What Can I Do?

http://lacextra.legalaid.nsw.gov.au/Publications/FileUpload/Doc/ImprintFile624.pdf

What is a Parenting Order, its obligations, consequences and who can help you?

http://www.familylawwebguide.com.au/forum/pg/topicview/misc/1221/index.php&start=0&keep_session=1092204992#post_5686

Child Access in Canada: Legal Approaches and Program Supports

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2002/2002_6/2002_6.html

ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD ABUSE IN THE CONTEXT OF PARENTAL SEPARATION: A DISCUSSION PAPER

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2001/2001_4/2001_4.html

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2001/2001_4/pdf/2001_4.pdf

Family Law Forms

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/forms_for_saint_john

Saint John Family Division List of Forms

Form 81A – Application (bilingual form)
Form 81B – Affidavit in Support of Claim for Custody or Access
Form 81C – Answer
Form 81D – Reply
Form 81F – Motion to Change
Form 81G – Change Information Form
Form 81H – Response to Motion to Change
Form 81I – Consent Motion to Change
Form 81J – Consent Motion to Change Child Support
Form 81K – Certificate of Solicitor
Form 81L – Notice of Motion for Leave to Appeal

Family Law Services in New Brunswick

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/index.php?mact=News,cntnt01,detail,0&cntnt01articleid=15&cntnt01origid=15&cntnt01returnid=103

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/uploads/file/Family%20Law%20publications/Family_Law_Services_Fact_Sheet_EN.pdf

Doing Your Own Divorce

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/uploads/file/pdfs/Doing_Your_Own_Divorce_09_EN.pdf

Court-Ordered Evaluations Support Program (C-OESP)

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/index.php?page=court_ordered_evaluations_support

Desertion

http://www.lawteacher.net/family-law-resources/Desertion.php

Grounds for Divorce: Abandonment or Desertion

http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/Grounds-for-Divorce-Abandonment-or-Desertion.html

FACTS EVERY ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DESERTION

http://blog.fathersforlife.org/2010/09/07/facts-every-one-should-know-about-desertion/

DIVORCE LAW IN CANADA

http://dsp-psd.pwgsc.gc.ca/Collection-R/LoPBdP/CIR/963-e.htm

family law talk radio podcasts

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search/family-law/

Supreme Court Self-help Resources (Videos etc...)

http://www.supremecourtselfhelp.bc.ca/self-help.htm

Dial-A-Law 

Canadian Bar Association

http://www.cba.org/BC/Public_Media/dal/default.aspx

Family Law  Audio

http://www.cba.org/bc/public_media/dal/family.aspx

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/fc/

A Guide to a Successful Interview with a Lawyer

http://www.lawhelpontario.org/library/item.110977-A_Guide_to_a_Successful_Interview_With_a_Lawyer

A Guide to Preparing Your Affidavit

http://www.justiceeducation.ca/themes/framework/documents/BCSCHIC_Affidavit.pdf

Preparing Your Affidavit

http://www.lawhelpontario.org/library/attachment.135282

Alternatives to Going to Court

http://www.supremecourtbc.ca/sites/default/files/web/Alternatives-to-Going-to-Court.pdf

Applications to Court

http://www.supremecourtbc.ca/sites/default/files/web/Applications-in-Supreme-Court.pdf

Family Law Forms (Schedule A, Division 2)

http://www.albertacourts.ab.ca/CourtofQueensBench/PublicationsForms/AlbertaRulesofCourtPrescribedForms/tabid/363/Default.aspx

PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS OF FALSELY. ACCUSING PARENTS IN CUSTODY DISPUTES.

http://www.fact.on.ca/Info/vac/under1.pdf

Law Society of New Brunswick

YES MOM I WAS A WILD TEEN SO YOUR POINT IS!

Mom you are a idiot & have no clue what you are talking about...Dad never had a video camera. Parties at dad ya when he was at work. Not really much he could do about it I was a wild child I admitted that. Parties at my friends houses too. Some nights I didn't even call him to tell him where I was or when I would be home. Dad tried to make me stay in my room once but I closed the door & jumped out my window & took off with my friends. That was when I broke the flower box from hanging off it. At least dad never beat me & abused me in any way like you let your boyfriend do! Oh & dad did tell the police to take me once when I came home all drunk because he was fed up with me & they told him "No Mr B you don't want to do that" I remember sitting in the police car telling them you can't arrest me I am only 15...lol
You are so screwed up I never bought any video camera from dad! I did how ever buy one from Wacky Weekly's. There was family videos made & yes my husband & I did have sex on the video camera & we thought we had recorded over it but there was one little bit that didn't get recorded over & it was embarrassing as hell. I have nothing to hide. But you can't even get you stories right. You twist every thing all around making up lies! Get your stories right & tell the truth or shut the hell up!!!

If any one wants to know what I am replying to here is the idiots new blog, yea don't know why but she made 2 new blogs:
http://dawntheangelstory2.blogspot.com/
http://dawntellsthetruth.blogspot.com/

More BS from my so called mother!

That isn't a suicide letter you stupid bitch...I do not remember writing it but I am 90% sure if I did it was written when I lived with you. Terry is @ fault for me not learning to play guitar when I was younger. Dad was going to buy me a electric guitar & terry said oh no she can learn on this acoustics that I couldn't even fit my arms around. Do you know how many times I was depressed while living with you? Of course you don't because you didn't give a shit that you boyfriend Terry was always beating me & burning troys fingers on the kerosene heater. He beat me in front of friends too. My saying that I didn't have a very good life in that note would of been because I lived 14 years of my childhood with you. Who are you kidding I would of never moved back home with you. I left you house to get away from the abuse. I ran to my safe place witch was with my dad. Also you can not copyright a not that I wrote especially when I didn't write it to you. I could sue you ass & take what little you have just for posting it on your blog. Also it was not Gerry Springer it was the Steve Wilkos Show & I wanted you & I to get the lie detector but we know why you wouldn't do it because you didn't want me to prove on live tv that you were nothing but a ling psychopath.

This is the letter that my mom posted & said I wrote. If I wrote it then it is mine to post!

Sorry for not posting lately...

Been dealing with other issues...Like having a dog bit my 11 year old son & the owners not taking responsibility & keeping there dogs tied so i will be going to court about that thanks to our Forest rangers for helping out here in N.B. I also have videos of the dogs on the roads & in my yard...I am so sick of people that just are disrespectful, lie & do not give a shit about others... What is wrong with people where is the human nature & kindness gone??

This is partly reply to a comment I had posted to a video on youtube Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories that I think is disrespecting to all men...To let a man hit you you have to have real low self esteem...I do not feel sorry for some one that stays in a relationship that a man an would hit them...No man would hit me for the simple fact that I would not stand for it & I would hit back & he would be seeing stars...What is wrong with you women?? Do not be week & do not result to lies for payback...Some do not like my way of thinking but at least I think for my self & I do not lie & I think that any one that does result in using lies to get even are week self loathing individuals...Grow some balls & take responsibilities for your own mistakes...Do not let a man push you around but then just the same do not make up lies to even the score...Have a little respect for yourself & be the stronger person...You are the one that put your self in the situation that you are in so go about it the right way...Just because you & your significant other might not be working out does that mean that he or she isn't a good father or mother?? Does that mean that there isn't some one else out there that is right for you that can make you happy & be respectful to the situation...The best thing any one can do for there child even if it doesn't work out for the parents is be respectful to the other parent & just get along for your child's sake...Stop blaming he or she for every thing & start taking half the blame for your self because like I said it takes 2 to make it & 2 to break it.Do not tell your child that the father or mother is this or that or no good...just keep those feelings to your self...You are the one that made the mistake in choosing the wrong sole mate so why is the child the one you want to make suffer?? If you are truly abused by your other then you need to learn to be strong & over power the situation & take control...Do what is best for you children not what is best for you!!Marriage is suppose to be for better or worse...You should try to work out your problems not run away from them...Unfortunately not everyone is perfect & people do make mistakes...If you can learn to forgive that you can be happy...Even all the lies that my mother has told I would for give her again if she would just get the proper help...Even though I hate my mother for all the lies that she has told weather they are because of her being vindictive or what I truly believe that she is mentally ill...Maybe bipolar disease....If she were to ask for my help I would help her...She is my mother even when she pisses me off with things that are not true...I do know I never want to be like her...Miserable, lonely & only thing on her mind is revenge against the one who betrayed her...No one is perfect & every one makes mistakes & if you realize this & learn forgiveness then you will be allot better off!!

Invatation to make comments on my mothers blog

My mother doesn't like my comments that are truthful & to the point...She want's me to sugar coat my feelings about her lies...I will not sugar coat anything!

I would like to invite all who know what I have had to deal with & other who have had to deal with the same type of thing to make comments on my mother blog to let her know that what she is doing lying, making up untrue stories is not right & will not be tolerated...

Post comments to her blog here:Dancing With The Devil

My mother says I am harassing her on her blog

Once again you are a liar...I am the one who stopped talking to you because of you making up lies again...Leaving a comment is not harassing you...That is why it is called a comment...Little Allen was there the day you were upsetting me on the phone with your lies & before that he would hang up the phone on you...That's the day that I started smoking again because of you...I had gone 2 weeks with out cigarettes before that phone call...So thank you for all the stress that you cause me with your lies....Little Allen hates you for the lies you have said about me & his grandfather....If you don't want comments then you shouldn't have a blog...If you are going to make up lies then you are going to get comments...Live with it...Little Allen is 18 this month may be it is time that I give him the link for you blog he is old enough & see what comments he leaves you...I guarantee they will not be nice!

My mother wouldn't take me to the hospital when I was sick

One more thing when I was pregnant will my first son I was 16 years old & I was very sick.
I had called you to see if you would take me up to the hospital. You said no. You claim to have been a good mother but wouldn't take your daughter up the hospital. I was in tears & couldn't breath. Well I got to the hospital with out your help & had to be admitted & hooked up to breathing machines & every thing. So just another example of how lousy of a mother you were.

I remember you not wanting to drive to work because of the snow. It was me that drove you around. I didn't make any excuses I did it because you had asked me to.

I hate liars...

First of all dads first child is none of your business...Now you saying that it wasn't long ago that I was having money problems...I take it you are talking about when I had my first child 17 years ago & you call that not long ago...Let me list the things I got from you Vacuum, Clippers & trimmers but Terry did not give me money for any of my hair dressing course. I paid for that 6 thousand dollars by the time I got it paid off so don't you dare try to take credit for my hair dressing course...Before my hair dressing course my mother inlaw bought my school books...After my hair dressing course when I decided to go back to school she also bought my books...You bought the two graduations rings...The diamond ring & the heart necklace that I gave you back the other day. So figure out what the vacuume, clipper, trimmers & the two rings cost you because I will be giving you the money in check form in the mail for them so you will not be able to say you gave me any thing...

You did not give me gifts of money... Any time that I got money from you I had did something to earn it & that was less than 10 times...I would call you & ask to borrow money for groceries & you would tell me that I was on my own now...You did not help me & I always thought that you were two faced because you would tell me about how Terrys parents fixed your car, gave you money for the house & what ever else...Any time we need money we had to ask dad or Allen's parents...Allen's mother was more my mother than you will ever be...Would you like me to list the stuff Allen's parents bought us & the kids. It makes what you gave me only pennies... But you trying to make your self look like you did lots for me...You did shit for me...

I do not remember Terry ever bringing my friends & I out to eat...I do how ever remember him making my friend watch & not let her leave while he was beating me...

I never said my father jumped on me & he never touched me in a sexual way you sick beotch...You are so sick in the head...I would love to ram a bar of soap in your sick mouth like you use to let Terry do to us...

Also you telling me not to swear on the blogs by calling you a lying whore but you were calling Terry's girlfriend Bitchey Bonnie in my car!


This is from my blog Wednesday, October 11, 2006 Mom was always talking about putting Troy in a foster home...
The social workers don't want nothing to do with mom they suggested maybe putting Troy in a foster home witch my dad don't like but I think in this case it would be best that way mom couldn't use him to hurt dad & dad would be able to see him with out her there interfering...& mom use to always talk about putting him in a foster home before to me I think she just keep him for dads money...
Was Shawn mad about you & Terry cheating on each other?
This is from my blog that I posted about what mom told me about Terry that I posted Wednesday, October 25, 2006
This is what she told me...She cheated on her husband with a black guy that was married in medical school & then she raised money to bring his kids & his wife to Canada...She said Her husband who she is separated with told their son if she ticked him off to go in the vase with flowers & get the sharp screw driver things & stab her...She said he told my little brother that he didn't have to do what mom says...I actually was believing her...Then after i was finally talking to her again this is when she stops the visitation of my down syndrome brother to my fathers again & told me it was because he seen a scary movie at my dads house...I knew that he didn't see any scary movies at dads & then I found out she lied to me again & that she was saying lies about dad again...By the way my dad paid for & passed a lie detector test witch he wasn't allowed to use in court...He didn't have to take a lie detector test for me...but it was nice to rub in her face & her sister who also stopped the father of her kids from seeing her kids.... Dad wasn't the one that told me his girlfriend told me whom I adore...I was friends with her before my dad & her got together...

So this Black guy she cheated his wife doesn't know & I guess she was having them over for thanks giving dinner...I can't wait to drop that bomb on the wife....
My mom I guess she has some other doctor boyfriend...She had asked me If I would donate one of my eggs before I stopped talking to her again & can you imagine how stupid i was that I actually considered doing it...Thank god she showed her true colors...

Lets not forget that you always had Troy going to that foster lady's house Emdelle...Plus he was working...He was never home with you for a while there...

Oh & lets not forget that you said Terry stole all the money out of your bank account that you said gram gave you when you split up...What was it a couple thousand dollars...

Court Yesterday

To my surprise I was amazed that my mother only had one out burst. She made a comment about my father not having his income tax papers there with him yesterday. Well dad was not appointed a free lawyer paid by the courts like my mother was so he was not aware that he needed these documents because his income has not changed. My dad had to represent him self. He has spent way too much over the years for lawyers & in the end it has done him no good but put him in debt.
In the past he would go to court, pay a lawyer for a judge to make a decision & for my mom to breach the court order & nothing is done about it.
After we left the court dad went straight home & found the papers & we brought them back to the court.
Well mom had bought me a necklace with a heart on it before I was on speaking terms with her & I didn't want it in the first place but she gave it to my gram to give it to me so I just excepted it.
I broke it in peaces & tossed it to her on the floor before we went into the court room. Her little court appointed lawyer said for me not to be so immature but she did not have to deal with my mother for 35 years & has no idea what I have had to put up with. She should of told her client to stay the hell away from us but nothing was said to my mother when she made her comment to my father. Double standards I tell you. I am not even sure that she knew that I was the daughter of that mental case that was her client.

Before I went into the court room the bailiff was a jerk. I asked him a simple question & he was rude. Not like the last bailiffs for the last time we were in court were polite & understanding.
This one we had yesterday I think that he thought he was god or something. Police treat people with respect what gives this bailiff the right to be rude when I was asking a legit & simple question. Teacher's teach you to ask questions. I am tired of being crapped on & I am not putting up with it! Think I might put a complaint in about this guy!

When the jerk bailiff was using the metal detector on me mom was right in my face in front of me so I took off the diamond ring she had bought me a long time ago at Christmas & handed it to her & told her that I didn't want it to take it back. She just looked at me for a second & i said take it I don't want it you can hawk it or some thing. Then she took it.

Unfortunately I still have the graduation rings she gave me but I am going to figure out how much they cost & in the new year some time I will mail her the money for these so I can say that I bought them myself because I do not want any thing from her. I do not want any thing from a liar.

Re: my mothers comments

Oh I suppose you have to be your younger son for swearing to be appropriate...You sons post to me has plenty of swearing to me plus disgusting sexual comments in his post...Where is he learning that from?
His comment is here: Your son post to my blog

Plus msn calling me a fat virgin slut & they are your words when it was my daughter on the computer:
Your post to my msn but blamed it on your son.
Just for the record you can not be a virgin & a slut at the same time!

Lets not forget his post to my youtube site saying he was going to paintball my house:
Your sons comment on my youtube.

It is OK for him to swear at me because he is mad because I am telling the truth but you are saying my language is because you are a liar, a mental & physical abuser & let you husband physically abuse me & I have no respect for you what so ever for what you have put me through for 20 years...Just because you are my biological mother or grand mother doesn't give you the right to be called a mother or a grand mother...You have never acted like a mother or a grand mother...You are a parasite that just will not go away...If you don't know what a parasite is look it up...Dad has nothing to do with my blog so why would I post his name...I posted my name & that is good enough...Even the most stupid person can figure it out...Oh I forgot you are not dealing with a full deck...You think that love should be bought & manipulated to your own advantage...Sorry not in my lifetime...You can not buy me or manipulate me & that is your whole problem...When are you going to get it I don't care about you, I don't need you in our lives, I don't want you in our lives...You are a parasite!
See you in court tomorrow!

My mothers comment on the woman's post is here.
Her Blog of lies Here.

Rot in hell liar!

Me telling the truth about my life is not a blackmail. Asking you to stop being a lying whore is not a blackmail.You being a liar & lying in court is called perjury & is a crime. You lying about my dad & myself is discrimination of character & is a criminal offense.Your the one who needs help. You go get some therapy from preferably some one who is not a quack this time! Rot in hell liar!

My mothers comment is below:
Dawn Goff said this on November 20, 2008 at 7:36 pm

Pretty bad when a mother will steal from her daughter!

When I was living at home I had a bank account. My mother took my money out of it & bought me a dresser that she still has & would not give to me. Also my sister inlaw let me borrow her negatives for the pictures of my wedding that she had taken & mom wanted to use them & has never given them back. That was over 10 years ago & when ever I ask her about them she says she can not find them. That is call stealing. Why would she want to keep these. They are not hers to keep they belong to my sister inlaw & she had asked for them back but I had to tell her that my mom said she can not find them in the mess of her house. They have picture of myself & my dad on there too.

The fact is mom is old enough to know that when you borrow something you are suppose to give it back & if you don't that is the same as stealing.

Posted more comments to my twisted mothers blog.

Of course I am reading your blog. I have to see what garbage lies you are writing. Not once have you said you were sorry for allowing that Bastard Terry for abusing us. You try to put off what Terry did to us off on to dad. Dad never did any thing but be a good loving father to us. If I had of realized when I was a kid I should of went to the police back then & reported Terry for abusing me. I should of sued Terry for abusing me. You can take your birthday wishes & give them to some one else. Yes & that bathing suit did look good on me.Their sister is the one who taught me how to strut my stuff & I did it well...

Funny I thought it was my home but that's just goes to show that you priorities were not your kids.
That any Tom Dick or Harry can move into the house & it would of been more their house that your kids.
You ask how many men would want this? Once again shows that you having men was more important than you kids.
Did you ask me if I wanted a border that would be sleeping in your bed with you & abusing me & Troy?
If that abusive Bastard didn't live in what I thought was my home than I wouldn't have moved out.
I never did & never will have any respect for him because of what he did to me.
But you blame dad for me moving with him but it was your fault for letting a abusive Bastard into our lives!

My house is my kids house & that is the way it should be for any parent. The kids come first.
Just goes to show that you haven't got a clue what being a parent means.

Comments I posted to my twisted mothers blog!

You are so twisted. I never wrote any such letter. You are such a liar. I am so done with you & my blog will stay up for ever. I will post my hand writing on my blog so post this so called letter!

That day I was in your driveway when you were sitting in my car you said that you were thinking about suicide. I told you not to talk so stupid! Well guess what I don't care what you do any more. I will not shed any tears for you at all!

Reply to my mother post on her blog!

I do not recall dad ever being mad at me. He didn’t have anything to be mad at me for I was just a little girl. Just your sick mind making up stuff.We were not watching scary movies all the time. Some of my favourite movies I watched at my dad’s house were Secrete Admire, Desperately Seeking Suzan & Who’s that girl, ET, Gremlins. I watched scary movie’s at my friend’s house all the time when I was living with my mother. I watched soaps all the time while living with my mother.I never came home from dads talking about violent movies.

In 1986, when you went on vacation to Kitchener, that would of made me 12 years old. That is the year that Terry got you to bring me back a vibrator. I was not left to care for Troy at dad’s house while he went drinking. But when you think about it I was baby sitting him all the time when I lived with you. Also dad never jumped on me & hurt me. Where do you come up with this shit. Are you on crack?

There was no adult sex movies at dad’s house but I use to watch them at your house with my friends & I made Troy stay in his bedroom so he couldn’t see them. Sorry I was only 12 years old being made to watch my down Syndrome brother all the time. I wasn’t made to read any hand book on Down syndrome kids. You’re the one who had the movies in your house, Sex Boat & Taboo & the Lacy Ladies. We were not drinking beer at dads.

(I just looked up the taboo movie & gross me out. I can not find the exact movie but the taboo movie series are about mother-son incest) Why did you keep this movie? That is sick & I didn't realize that was what it was about when I was younger.

Terry should have shut the fuck up. My dad was none of his business & he had no right to start arguments with my dad & making my dad leave with out us. Terry was not our father even though he thought he had the right to discipline us using the belt & burning Troy’s fingers on a kerosene heater to show him it was hot. He had no right to get in a fist fight with me because I didn’t want to do the dishes & he wouldn’t let MJ leave & made her watch him beat me. At your house I was always the one that was stuck doing the house work all the time. The only one who hurts your children is you “Mother”.

There you go again making up stories. I already said it earlier in my blog the reason for me not going to my dad’s house was because I was board out there & I wanted to go to the beach everyday. My friends & the guy that I like lived near us. You know the neighbours boy. Duh!

Dad never use to air his problems to me like you are trying to say. Dad never said any thing about the money he gave you. I do not remember dad ever saying that you wanted to have an abortion & if I was 13 years old I think I would remember this if that were true. I do how ever remember you saying that Aunt M. said something of this same nature to me but once again I do not remember Aunt M. saying that.

Now you making up stories about my Karate instructor…My god what is wrong with your head. I wasn’t the only one that went to Karate at nights & I should of stuck it out instead of quitting because I was more interested in stupid boys. My marks were always poor at school because I had no interest in it. That had nothing to do with Karate. You had me in swimming lessons & that was at night. Were the swimming instructors up to no good too?

Yes I took change from the dresser that Terry was using. It wasn’t his dresser. That bedroom set was there before Terry. He use to beat me with the belt & abuse me. He owes me more than the little bit of change I took to go to the store to buy candy with my friends! He took my happy childhood away buy abusing me every chance he got & interfering with my relationship with my father!

Now for you saying I use to steal your things. Your bathing suit. I use to wear it all the time & then you finally gave it to me. You didn’t even have the body to wear it back then. You would have had fat falling all out of it everywhere. My daughter takes my stuff all the time. I go to use my make-up & it not in my purse where I left it. That’s what it is to have a daughter. Just face it you should of never had kids.

I do not remember you taking me to see any minister. And if you had of I would of told him what a abuser you & your husband was. I do not know how many time’s I have to say it my dad never hurt me in any way shape or form. You should of protected us from being abused by your boyfriend/x-husband Terry.

If you had people contact you then they were other parents that lie & brain wash their kids against the other parent also.

You say I am running down the Goffs! Telling the truth how they raised a abuser is running them down? You told me that Terry’s own father told you he was a lazy looser & to give him the boot! Was that another lie you told me? Helping get the money taking away no that was all your doing. You gave up the money willingly. Where is the child support that you should have been paying dad for when I was living with him?

I don’t know who Karen Johnson is , but Diana Thompson is the nosey ugly fat whore that lived across the road. I would not doubt for a minute that she was touching Troy when she was baby sitting him!

Dad never let me drive his car. I use to steal his car & I never in my life rolled a car! However I think you are getting mixed up again. When I lived with you Me & my friend D. went for a drive out to Mispec beach & her boyfriend & his friend who was driving put us in the ditch on the side because he couldn’t drive for crap & obviously he was driving too fast! So I would like to know what the hell you are talking about! You have to be doing crack or something. Mom there is something wrong with you head. You need to go get check out by a doctor that isn’t a quack. I will even go to the doctor with you because there is something wrong with you that you get things all mixed up & twisted unless you are really just a liar.

If you love your daughter you would stop with the lies & get real mental help.

This bathing suit is similar to the bathing suit my mother was complaining that I use to always wear that was hers.

Goodnight "Parrot"...

Bla Bla Bla...Like I said all you think of is Money...Those books are sure helping you get a job aren't they? Where is you big paying job? Reading all those books are not doing a dam bit of good for you...Do you think those doctors & lawyers would be where they are at with out taking a course...No they wouldn't so unless you are planning to take a course you are wasting your time & your life...The books they use in their courses have to be approved to be used not just any book you see in the stores...You are such a hypocrite calling me a liar...Remember I am the one that said I would take a lie detector test but you don't seem to want to take one...I wonder why that is maybe because your a liar...Lying come second nature to you...You do it so well...I am too tired to waste any more of my time on you tonight...Goodnight "Parrot"...

What ever “Parrot”…

What ever “Parrot”…Keep reading those books…Why don’t you go read some books on How to keep a husband, how to be a good mother & How to not be a liar…

Book sellers love you...Do you believe everything you read...They'll keep feeding you shit as long as you keep buying there books...To bad you don't know how to think for your self...But you'll always just sound like a parrot to me...