The best parenting advice ever from Judge Michael Haas

This article was shared in a group I am in on FB. Thought it was worth wile sharing. All judges should think this way when it comes to kids. If I could meet this Judge I would hug him bc his words are inspiring that maybe there is hope that kids childhoods can be happy & healthy & not have to pay the price for their parents mistakes. God bless you Judge Michael Haas!

http://www.examiner.com/article/the-best-parenting-advice-ever-from-judge-michael-haas

Telegraph Journal Monday, September 3, 2012

Man declines to make plea on driving while suspended

LAURA MACINNIS KINGS COUNTY RECORD

HAMPTON - Thomas Frederick Crowe is accused of driving while prohibited four times in less than one month.
The 32-year-old Saint John man appeared in Hampton Provincial Court Tuesday but refused to make pleas. "I wanted everything stated here to be on public record;' he said before telling the court an officer threatened him into coming to court.
Tonning explained the court is a place of public record and also told the accused that if he was ordered to come to court, he is required to appear.
In all there are four charges against Crowe between District 3 RCMP and Rothesay Regional Police: driving while suspended in Kings County on July 13 and July 26, twice on Aug. 1, and an indictable charge of driving while prohibited on Aug. 5 in Kingston.
But as Tonning asked him for pleas, he balked at the question."There is no plea, because there is no case;' Crowe said. judge Henrik Tonning said if he refused to make a plea, he would have to enter a not guilty plea for him.
"I object to that;' Crowe said.
"You can object all you like;' Tonning responded, but told him if he claims the Crown has no case, that is the equivalent of a not guilty plea.
He then warned Crowe that if he was stopped for driving while suspended again, the police would most likely take him into custody. Crowe responded by telling them he doesn't drive a commercial vehicle, and Tonning said he was unclear on what that had to do with the charges before the court.
"I don't care what vehicle you have. You can ride a horse, but you won't get behind the wheel until you get your licence back;'the judge said.
Duty counsel Carley Parish indicated Crowe did not wish to speak to her before his appearance. He set the trial dates down for Feb. 14 in Saint John, and Crowe indicated he will most likely represent himself.

Is your child being with held from you? Here is reserch I did that may help you:)

If a parent is with holding your children from you & the judge has awarded you visitation rights then first off the parent is breaching the court order!

In most cases the judge will frown upon this. The Judge is the only one with the right to change the court order for visitation.

First you need to do a lot of reading & go to the family court building bring a motion & file a affidavit.

Help can be found here:

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/Parenting_Affidavit_Self-Help_Guide-EN.pdf

Other Links that may help:

APPLYING FOR AN ACCESS ENFORCEMENT ORDER

IN THE COURT OF QUEEN’S BENCH

http://www.albertacourts.ab.ca/qb/publication/access_enforcement_order_qb.htm

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/custody_and_access

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/uploads/file/pdfs/Applying_for_CAS_EN.pdf

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/publications/family_law/self_help_guides_family/Applying_for_Custody_Access_and_Support_EN.pdf

https://www.pxw1.snb.ca/snb7001/e/1000/CSS-FOL-SNB-45-0161E.pdf

AFFIDAVIT IN SUPPORT OF CLAIM FOR CUSTODY OR ACCESS

http://www.gnb.ca/0062/regs/Form/Form-81b-e.pdf

Obtaining Reliable and Repeatable SSAG Calculations

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/calc/pdf/orrssagc.pdf

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines: Report on Revisions

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/s-p/index.html

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/s-p/pdf/rr_eng.pdf

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,

1985 (Part 1)

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/documents/rogerson/spousal_child_support_part_1.pdf

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,

1985 (Part 11)

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/documents/rogerson/spousal_child_support_part_2.pdf

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines

http://www.law.utoronto.ca/faculty_content.asp?profile=48&perpage=188&cType=facMembers&itemPath=1/3/4/0/0

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/spo-epo/g-ld/spag/intro.html

Carol Rogerson's Scholarly Papers (Family Law)

http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=88054

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court 

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/fc/default.asp

Going To Court

http://www.themodernwomansdivorceguide.com/moderndivorce/articles/going-to-court/

Contempt of court

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contempt_of_court

Divorse Articles

http://www.peterhaiman.com/articles/protecting-a-childs-emotional-development-when-parents-divorce.shtml

http://www.nncc.org/parent/childview.html

http://smartdivorce.com/articles/childview.shtml

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/3645040/A-childs-eye-view-of-divorce.html

http://www.naturalchild.org/guest/peter_haiman3.html

http://www.nytimes.com/1995/05/25/garden/l-a-child-s-view-of-divorce-066095.html

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/children_divorce.htm

http://www.cba.org/bc/public_media/rights/238.aspx

http://blogs.extension.iastate.edu/scienceofparenting/tag/spoil/

Complying with orders about children

http://www.familylawcourts.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/FLC/Home/Court+Orders/Complying+with+orders+about+children/

Breaches (Contravention) & Enforcement of Parenting Orders

http://www.thefamilylawdirectory.com.au/article/breaches-contravention-enforcement-of-parenting-orders-the-family-law-directory.html

My ex-partner isn't following the court orders about our children What Can I Do?

http://lacextra.legalaid.nsw.gov.au/Publications/FileUpload/Doc/ImprintFile624.pdf

What is a Parenting Order, its obligations, consequences and who can help you?

http://www.familylawwebguide.com.au/forum/pg/topicview/misc/1221/index.php&start=0&keep_session=1092204992#post_5686

Child Access in Canada: Legal Approaches and Program Supports

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2002/2002_6/2002_6.html

ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD ABUSE IN THE CONTEXT OF PARENTAL SEPARATION: A DISCUSSION PAPER

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2001/2001_4/2001_4.html

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2001/2001_4/pdf/2001_4.pdf

Family Law Forms

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/forms_for_saint_john

Saint John Family Division List of Forms

Form 81A – Application (bilingual form)
Form 81B – Affidavit in Support of Claim for Custody or Access
Form 81C – Answer
Form 81D – Reply
Form 81F – Motion to Change
Form 81G – Change Information Form
Form 81H – Response to Motion to Change
Form 81I – Consent Motion to Change
Form 81J – Consent Motion to Change Child Support
Form 81K – Certificate of Solicitor
Form 81L – Notice of Motion for Leave to Appeal

Family Law Services in New Brunswick

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/index.php?mact=News,cntnt01,detail,0&cntnt01articleid=15&cntnt01origid=15&cntnt01returnid=103

http://www.familylawnb.ca/english/uploads/file/Family%20Law%20publications/Family_Law_Services_Fact_Sheet_EN.pdf

Doing Your Own Divorce

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/uploads/file/pdfs/Doing_Your_Own_Divorce_09_EN.pdf

Court-Ordered Evaluations Support Program (C-OESP)

http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/index.php?page=court_ordered_evaluations_support

Desertion

http://www.lawteacher.net/family-law-resources/Desertion.php

Grounds for Divorce: Abandonment or Desertion

http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/Grounds-for-Divorce-Abandonment-or-Desertion.html

FACTS EVERY ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DESERTION

http://blog.fathersforlife.org/2010/09/07/facts-every-one-should-know-about-desertion/

DIVORCE LAW IN CANADA

http://dsp-psd.pwgsc.gc.ca/Collection-R/LoPBdP/CIR/963-e.htm

family law talk radio podcasts

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search/family-law/

Supreme Court Self-help Resources (Videos etc...)

http://www.supremecourtselfhelp.bc.ca/self-help.htm

Dial-A-Law 

Canadian Bar Association

http://www.cba.org/BC/Public_Media/dal/default.aspx

Family Law  Audio

http://www.cba.org/bc/public_media/dal/family.aspx

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/fc/

A Guide to a Successful Interview with a Lawyer

http://www.lawhelpontario.org/library/item.110977-A_Guide_to_a_Successful_Interview_With_a_Lawyer

A Guide to Preparing Your Affidavit

http://www.justiceeducation.ca/themes/framework/documents/BCSCHIC_Affidavit.pdf

Preparing Your Affidavit

http://www.lawhelpontario.org/library/attachment.135282

Alternatives to Going to Court

http://www.supremecourtbc.ca/sites/default/files/web/Alternatives-to-Going-to-Court.pdf

Applications to Court

http://www.supremecourtbc.ca/sites/default/files/web/Applications-in-Supreme-Court.pdf

Family Law Forms (Schedule A, Division 2)

http://www.albertacourts.ab.ca/CourtofQueensBench/PublicationsForms/AlbertaRulesofCourtPrescribedForms/tabid/363/Default.aspx

PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS OF FALSELY. ACCUSING PARENTS IN CUSTODY DISPUTES.

http://www.fact.on.ca/Info/vac/under1.pdf

Law Society of New Brunswick

Children & Housework Is A Full Time Job In Itself

So I have been going with my friend to drop off her kids where their dad & her meet to prevent him from making more false accusations. Her son is @ camp & it was her week for the kids & the kids go to the dads house on Thursday. But it was just the little girl going where her son is @ camp. She is only 5 & vary attached to her mom witch is normal for her age & where the mom was the main care giver.

So her little girl was fine until the dad got there & then she started taking a fit saying she was not going & @ my house the mom told her that we had to leave soon so that she could drop her off for her dad & that she would be having supper there & she would see her in the morning. The little girl made a comment about not wanting to eat supper there because all her father makes is bacon. I only bring this up because in the court room his letter stated that he made nutritious meals trying to make himself look like a good parent & trying to make my friend look like a bad parent.

This good parent bad parent game is really old & needs to stop.

I can vouch for my friend & say that when I was @ her house when they were still together she made nutritious meals. When she was working she had the roast in the croc cooking & everything all prepared all he had to do was dish it. She also asks the kids what they would like to have. I have found in my experience there is no sense making a meal that the kids do not like & trying to force them to eat it. One of my kids will not eat onions so even thought the rest of us like onions I have to leave them out unless I make him something else. I would never do to my kids what my mothers boyfriend did to me. He forced me to swallow my squash & I keep gagging on it. The squash would come back up & I had to try to force it down with milk. Do not do this to your kids:(

When I use to go to my dads house when I was little he would ask me what I wanted to eat I would say Kraft Dinner. When I was 15 years old I moved in with my dad & when he use to ask me what I wanted to eat I would say Kraft Dinner. He asked me in a annoyed tone aren’t you tired of Kraft Dinner. I of course said “No”. So he maid me Kraft Dinner...lol Till this day I still love & eat Kraft Dinner.

Also @ dads house I use to sneak & eat all the marsh mellows out of the “Lucky Charms” cereal. Sorry dad but I didn't get to have that cereal @ moms house...lol

I am also not saying that I didn't get food I liked @ my moms house because I did. I got different things @ my moms house that I liked like apple crumble, truffle & crepes etc...When I was @ my dads I got other things I liked like Lucky Charms, Kraft Dinner, Donairs, Egg Roles etc...

Well I just can't leave out Grams Baked Beans, Awesome homemade strawberry jam, & grams homemade brown sugar fudge & The best Christmas suppers you could imaging...

Me on the other hand I love bacon. I don't think its too healthy but I love a toasted bacon sandwich with ketup or a BLT. Now maybe my friends little gild doesn't like or is tired of bacon.

So what I am trying to get @ is find out what your kids like don't just stick what ever you want to make in front of there face & expect them to enjoy eating it...Mix it up:) Variety equals happiness. Give them something to look forward to.

My friends kids father also made comments about my letter to the judge where I stating that my friend was the main care giver. In his letter to the judge he was trying to say he was the main caregiver & that how would I know this if my friend was the main care giver.

So I just want to say I think he may have been a bit confused. There is a difference between a caregiver & a provider. A care giver is the one who looks after the kids on a full time basis & looks after the house. That is a full time job in itself. So his comment about my friend never keeping a job since he's known her. I say BULLSHIT. That comment was a insult to any full time caregiver(the parent that stays home & looks after the kids & house). I have had to do this for basically 21 years stay at home & raise the kids & keep house.

If I wanted to take pot shots @ my friends ex like he has done to her with his false accusations I could say that my kids father never had to claim bankruptcy. I could say a good provider would not have to claim bankruptcy he would of worked more. My friends ex is not as perfect as he thinks he is. Even though I have had a family member of my own that had to claim bankruptcy. I am just using this to prove a point because in reality people make mistakes or bad decisions. There is no such thing as a perfect parent. It is all a learning process. Parents should not make up false accusations & take pot shots @ the other parent. This is not helping the kids.

I have had several jobs as well & some I really loved & had to leave because my hours were interfering with my kids & their fathers job & baby sitters are way too expensive. They usually charge too much & it is a waste of your time & gas to even work when you have to pay a baby sitter most of what you make. Then I know with me when I was working when I got home it was also me that had to do the housework, laundry, dishes, look after my kids etc. So that was two jobs or more that I had to do all @ once. Us parents that raise the kids & do all the housework do not get paid for this but that does not make it any less than a job that you would get paid for. It is only now that all my kids are in school I was lucky to find a job that I can work days so that it does not interfere with my kids or their fathers schedule.

This was the same for my friend only her son was in school, her daughter was not. So she had to pay for a full time baby sitter for her daughter & after school care for her son. He did not help her with baby sitting or after school care.

I think it was disgusting how he tried to degrade her. He said other things as well to try to degrade her & make himself look like the good parent. (Good parent bad parent game again.) He is trying to isolate the kids out of their moms life. That to me is not a good parent.

Now back to today. We took her little girl to get picked up by her dad & as soon as she seen him she starts making a fuss saying she is not going just like the last time. The last time I told my friend not to force her out of the car to let him force her out of the car because if by accident she get any scrapes or bruises he would use that as a excuse to phone CPS & make false accusation again.

This time she carried her over to him but her little girl would not let her go & he had to pry her away & the little girl was not having it & she ripped her moms hair out in the process. She was screaming & crying taking a fit & the dad put her in the car seat & went to get in his car. So the little girl got out of her seat & unlocked the door & jumped out so my friend picked her up & the father yells “what the fuck are you doing idiot” & saying that he was going to call the cops that she was near her car...

Well I will tell you him calling the cops with bs is really getting old & him acting that way in front of his daughter isn't helping. My friend told me he said he doesn't know why his little girl is acting this way.

Well first of all she is 5, she is attached to her mom as most kids are attached to their main care giver when they are that young. He with held the kids & they didn't see there mother so that fear is probably in the back of her mind of not seeing mommy again. Maybe she isn't looking forward to the meal routine @ her dads. It could be a number of things. It would not have hurt him to let the his daughter stay with her mom but he is more concerned with himself having control than his daughters feelings.

When I was little I loved going with my dad & if I had wanted to stay @ moms my dad would of not made a fuss. There were lots of time that I didn't go with my dad because I wanted to stay with my friends that lived around my moms house & that was ok because it was what I wanted to do. It was never because I didn't love my dad. I love my dad more than any thing & it helps that he is a good dad & put my feelings first over his pride & he didn't try to control the situation & let me make my own decisions:)

Care about your children's feelings more than your pride. Your job as a parent is not to control or make all your children's decisions. Your job as a parent is to put them first, love them, spend time with them, care & provide for them, keep them safe, guide them, teach them right from wrong. Let your heart guide you to what a parent should be & kick you anger, pride & need to control out the door.

Article From Times Transcript: Alienation a form of abuse

Alienation a form of abuse

Monday was Parental Alienation Awareness Day. It is the day to recognize that Parental Alienation exists and hurts children worldwide.

PA usually occurs in divorced families but can also occur in intact families. It is when one parent alienates their children from the other parent. It is a process that occurs over time through bad-mouthing, bashing and can eventually be brainwashing in extreme cases.

The children witness role-modelling of disrespect for the alienated parent and learn to mimic these same behaviours. Children that once had healthy, close relationships with the alienated parent may choose to no longer see them. The more time spent with the alienating parent, the more role-modelling that exists to the point of brainwashing.

Parental alienation is a form of emotional, mental and psychological abuse - child abuse. The alienating parent "uses" the children to hurt the alienated parent.

Professionals in this community need to recognize that this form of abuse exists. From judges who turn their backs on the evidence, to social workers, teachers, principals and senior administrators, psychologists, lawyers, doctors, nurses, police and sports organizations, many become involved in alienating one parent from the other parent by listening to the stories of the alienator.

Any adult dealing with children and youth should be aware of this type of child abuse. As professionals and community members you have a responsibility to protect these children. If you would like to educate yourself to this form of child abuse you can visit www.paawareness.org.

GWEN SHUTTLEWORTH

Family Court Today & Guess who I Saw

Well I was @ family court today to give my friend support for the "BS" that her ex is putting her through. Guess who I seen in the parking lot going into the building:( My mother of course! God knows what she is scheming this time. Probably going to try to get more money from my dad. Guess what "Mom" the bank of Dad is "closed". So give it up. When are these parents going to get it together & do what is right for the kids. Are they ever going to see the light of day or are they going to continue to make false accusations putting them selves ahead of the kids. My friend's ex & my mother have something in common, they make false accusation & put them selves first before the kids, & they like to make threats & breach court orders withholding the kids from the loving other parent!

YES MOM I WAS A WILD TEEN SO YOUR POINT IS!

Mom you are a idiot & have no clue what you are talking about...Dad never had a video camera. Parties at dad ya when he was at work. Not really much he could do about it I was a wild child I admitted that. Parties at my friends houses too. Some nights I didn't even call him to tell him where I was or when I would be home. Dad tried to make me stay in my room once but I closed the door & jumped out my window & took off with my friends. That was when I broke the flower box from hanging off it. At least dad never beat me & abused me in any way like you let your boyfriend do! Oh & dad did tell the police to take me once when I came home all drunk because he was fed up with me & they told him "No Mr B you don't want to do that" I remember sitting in the police car telling them you can't arrest me I am only 15...lol
You are so screwed up I never bought any video camera from dad! I did how ever buy one from Wacky Weekly's. There was family videos made & yes my husband & I did have sex on the video camera & we thought we had recorded over it but there was one little bit that didn't get recorded over & it was embarrassing as hell. I have nothing to hide. But you can't even get you stories right. You twist every thing all around making up lies! Get your stories right & tell the truth or shut the hell up!!!

If any one wants to know what I am replying to here is the idiots new blog, yea don't know why but she made 2 new blogs:
http://dawntheangelstory2.blogspot.com/
http://dawntellsthetruth.blogspot.com/

More BS from my so called mother!

That isn't a suicide letter you stupid bitch...I do not remember writing it but I am 90% sure if I did it was written when I lived with you. Terry is @ fault for me not learning to play guitar when I was younger. Dad was going to buy me a electric guitar & terry said oh no she can learn on this acoustics that I couldn't even fit my arms around. Do you know how many times I was depressed while living with you? Of course you don't because you didn't give a shit that you boyfriend Terry was always beating me & burning troys fingers on the kerosene heater. He beat me in front of friends too. My saying that I didn't have a very good life in that note would of been because I lived 14 years of my childhood with you. Who are you kidding I would of never moved back home with you. I left you house to get away from the abuse. I ran to my safe place witch was with my dad. Also you can not copyright a not that I wrote especially when I didn't write it to you. I could sue you ass & take what little you have just for posting it on your blog. Also it was not Gerry Springer it was the Steve Wilkos Show & I wanted you & I to get the lie detector but we know why you wouldn't do it because you didn't want me to prove on live tv that you were nothing but a ling psychopath.

This is the letter that my mom posted & said I wrote. If I wrote it then it is mine to post!

Sorry for not posting lately...

Been dealing with other issues...Like having a dog bit my 11 year old son & the owners not taking responsibility & keeping there dogs tied so i will be going to court about that thanks to our Forest rangers for helping out here in N.B. I also have videos of the dogs on the roads & in my yard...I am so sick of people that just are disrespectful, lie & do not give a shit about others... What is wrong with people where is the human nature & kindness gone??

This is partly reply to a comment I had posted to a video on youtube Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories that I think is disrespecting to all men...To let a man hit you you have to have real low self esteem...I do not feel sorry for some one that stays in a relationship that a man an would hit them...No man would hit me for the simple fact that I would not stand for it & I would hit back & he would be seeing stars...What is wrong with you women?? Do not be week & do not result to lies for payback...Some do not like my way of thinking but at least I think for my self & I do not lie & I think that any one that does result in using lies to get even are week self loathing individuals...Grow some balls & take responsibilities for your own mistakes...Do not let a man push you around but then just the same do not make up lies to even the score...Have a little respect for yourself & be the stronger person...You are the one that put your self in the situation that you are in so go about it the right way...Just because you & your significant other might not be working out does that mean that he or she isn't a good father or mother?? Does that mean that there isn't some one else out there that is right for you that can make you happy & be respectful to the situation...The best thing any one can do for there child even if it doesn't work out for the parents is be respectful to the other parent & just get along for your child's sake...Stop blaming he or she for every thing & start taking half the blame for your self because like I said it takes 2 to make it & 2 to break it.Do not tell your child that the father or mother is this or that or no good...just keep those feelings to your self...You are the one that made the mistake in choosing the wrong sole mate so why is the child the one you want to make suffer?? If you are truly abused by your other then you need to learn to be strong & over power the situation & take control...Do what is best for you children not what is best for you!!Marriage is suppose to be for better or worse...You should try to work out your problems not run away from them...Unfortunately not everyone is perfect & people do make mistakes...If you can learn to forgive that you can be happy...Even all the lies that my mother has told I would for give her again if she would just get the proper help...Even though I hate my mother for all the lies that she has told weather they are because of her being vindictive or what I truly believe that she is mentally ill...Maybe bipolar disease....If she were to ask for my help I would help her...She is my mother even when she pisses me off with things that are not true...I do know I never want to be like her...Miserable, lonely & only thing on her mind is revenge against the one who betrayed her...No one is perfect & every one makes mistakes & if you realize this & learn forgiveness then you will be allot better off!!

Invatation to make comments on my mothers blog

My mother doesn't like my comments that are truthful & to the point...She want's me to sugar coat my feelings about her lies...I will not sugar coat anything!

I would like to invite all who know what I have had to deal with & other who have had to deal with the same type of thing to make comments on my mother blog to let her know that what she is doing lying, making up untrue stories is not right & will not be tolerated...

Post comments to her blog here:Dancing With The Devil

My mother says I am harassing her on her blog

Once again you are a liar...I am the one who stopped talking to you because of you making up lies again...Leaving a comment is not harassing you...That is why it is called a comment...Little Allen was there the day you were upsetting me on the phone with your lies & before that he would hang up the phone on you...That's the day that I started smoking again because of you...I had gone 2 weeks with out cigarettes before that phone call...So thank you for all the stress that you cause me with your lies....Little Allen hates you for the lies you have said about me & his grandfather....If you don't want comments then you shouldn't have a blog...If you are going to make up lies then you are going to get comments...Live with it...Little Allen is 18 this month may be it is time that I give him the link for you blog he is old enough & see what comments he leaves you...I guarantee they will not be nice!

My mother wouldn't take me to the hospital when I was sick

One more thing when I was pregnant will my first son I was 16 years old & I was very sick.
I had called you to see if you would take me up to the hospital. You said no. You claim to have been a good mother but wouldn't take your daughter up the hospital. I was in tears & couldn't breath. Well I got to the hospital with out your help & had to be admitted & hooked up to breathing machines & every thing. So just another example of how lousy of a mother you were.

I remember you not wanting to drive to work because of the snow. It was me that drove you around. I didn't make any excuses I did it because you had asked me to.

Re: my mothers comments

Oh I suppose you have to be your younger son for swearing to be appropriate...You sons post to me has plenty of swearing to me plus disgusting sexual comments in his post...Where is he learning that from?
His comment is here: Your son post to my blog

Plus msn calling me a fat virgin slut & they are your words when it was my daughter on the computer:
Your post to my msn but blamed it on your son.
Just for the record you can not be a virgin & a slut at the same time!

Lets not forget his post to my youtube site saying he was going to paintball my house:
Your sons comment on my youtube.

It is OK for him to swear at me because he is mad because I am telling the truth but you are saying my language is because you are a liar, a mental & physical abuser & let you husband physically abuse me & I have no respect for you what so ever for what you have put me through for 20 years...Just because you are my biological mother or grand mother doesn't give you the right to be called a mother or a grand mother...You have never acted like a mother or a grand mother...You are a parasite that just will not go away...If you don't know what a parasite is look it up...Dad has nothing to do with my blog so why would I post his name...I posted my name & that is good enough...Even the most stupid person can figure it out...Oh I forgot you are not dealing with a full deck...You think that love should be bought & manipulated to your own advantage...Sorry not in my lifetime...You can not buy me or manipulate me & that is your whole problem...When are you going to get it I don't care about you, I don't need you in our lives, I don't want you in our lives...You are a parasite!
See you in court tomorrow!

My mothers comment on the woman's post is here.
Her Blog of lies Here.

Rot in hell liar!

Me telling the truth about my life is not a blackmail. Asking you to stop being a lying whore is not a blackmail.You being a liar & lying in court is called perjury & is a crime. You lying about my dad & myself is discrimination of character & is a criminal offense.Your the one who needs help. You go get some therapy from preferably some one who is not a quack this time! Rot in hell liar!

My mothers comment is below:
Dawn Goff said this on November 20, 2008 at 7:36 pm

Don’t preach God when you stink of sin for all your lies!

Oh & as for me going public on my blog breaking up your your family sorry that is a lie because I didn’t start this blog until after you had already kicked Terry out of the house. I started this blog the day after the phone conversation with you making up these ridiculous lies again! You have no right to ask me not to swear at the disgusting likes of you. Don’t preach God when you stink of sin for all your lies! Don’t lie to me about my dad It is not excepted! If you have some one who cares about you God help him because he is going to need it! I have a father but I do not have a mother. I will see you in court on Nov 24,2008. I will tell you now to keep your distance from my son or my next stop will be the police station to get a restraining order. You are nothing to me or my kids.

Pretty bad when a mother will steal from her daughter!

When I was living at home I had a bank account. My mother took my money out of it & bought me a dresser that she still has & would not give to me. Also my sister inlaw let me borrow her negatives for the pictures of my wedding that she had taken & mom wanted to use them & has never given them back. That was over 10 years ago & when ever I ask her about them she says she can not find them. That is call stealing. Why would she want to keep these. They are not hers to keep they belong to my sister inlaw & she had asked for them back but I had to tell her that my mom said she can not find them in the mess of her house. They have picture of myself & my dad on there too.

The fact is mom is old enough to know that when you borrow something you are suppose to give it back & if you don't that is the same as stealing.

Posted more comments to my twisted mothers blog.

Of course I am reading your blog. I have to see what garbage lies you are writing. Not once have you said you were sorry for allowing that Bastard Terry for abusing us. You try to put off what Terry did to us off on to dad. Dad never did any thing but be a good loving father to us. If I had of realized when I was a kid I should of went to the police back then & reported Terry for abusing me. I should of sued Terry for abusing me. You can take your birthday wishes & give them to some one else. Yes & that bathing suit did look good on me.Their sister is the one who taught me how to strut my stuff & I did it well...

Funny I thought it was my home but that's just goes to show that you priorities were not your kids.
That any Tom Dick or Harry can move into the house & it would of been more their house that your kids.
You ask how many men would want this? Once again shows that you having men was more important than you kids.
Did you ask me if I wanted a border that would be sleeping in your bed with you & abusing me & Troy?
If that abusive Bastard didn't live in what I thought was my home than I wouldn't have moved out.
I never did & never will have any respect for him because of what he did to me.
But you blame dad for me moving with him but it was your fault for letting a abusive Bastard into our lives!

My house is my kids house & that is the way it should be for any parent. The kids come first.
Just goes to show that you haven't got a clue what being a parent means.

The Choices You Make In Life Are Yours & Your Alone...

Ah are you jealous that I have a education? Yes I am proud of myself. For what I had to put up with from you & your border boyfriend/husband I think I did pretty dam good for myself. My aim is to be nothing like you. You are a weak self loathing poor excuse for a mother & a person who blames every one else for her problems instead of taking responsibility for her own actions. You say dad is to blame for all your problems. I lost my virginity at age 13 & you do not see me crying rape or molestation. I didn't lie to him about my age like you did. It was my choice. I bet you that person is thanking god I am nothing like you. I have had sex when I was drunk before. Once again It was my choice. I chose to drink & I chose to have sex. I chose to stay in school. I chose to take a course. Are you seeing the bigger picture here. Take a dam hard look at you life & tell me how you making a choice is any ones fault but your own? It isn't!

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"Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously."

"It's Essential to take Responsibility for Your Actions and Your Choices or You'll Never Be Able to move Forward in Life. Keep Blaming Other People for Things, Feeling as If You're a Constant Victim and You'll Just Dig Yourself into a Hole."

"In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility."--Eleanor Roosevelt

Wtf am I famous yet...LMFAOSB @ crazy mommy...

wtf are you talking about...you are a moron...lmao...Made my blog to tell what a abusive childhood I had because of my mother & her abusive husband that moved in first as a border & was in her bed in no time at all...Oh yes I am so famous...You better tell all the other bloggers out there that they made there blog to get famous...The only one with the small mind is you...Don't forget I have my grade 12 & a hair dressing course that I got a student loan for & paid for...My mother in law bought my books when I was going to high school...I have also taken computer courses...Sorry to disappoint you but no I have not run out of money...It's called get off your ass & get a job you you sniveling biotch...

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Oh your stupidity is always good for a laugh...lmfao

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There it's viewable now!

I do not care what you or any one else thinks for that matter. Especially some one I do not know.
Hell I don't even care what people that do know me think. I am doing thit for my own reasons.
If I am talking to air then it's my air to talk to. Air is free so hell why not!
If you don't like the program windows movie maker that is you progative. I will use what ever program I feel like using.
Maybe you are one of those kind that steps into a kids life just to take over & abuse them & ruin their child hood. If I am humiliating or exploiting myself I don't care. If this blog helps just one kid from being abused then that is all that matters. Maybe if parents would care more about their kids & less about them selves then kids wouldn't get abused.