I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Thursday, 18 September 2014

Reply to my mother

I told you the truth. My dad never did the things you said. You made up lies about him out of spite & hate that I can never forgive you for. My kids also know the things you said about their grandfather & the dislike you for the things you said. Unlike you I tell the truth to my kids. My kids do not consider you their grandmother. My youngest who is 13 yrs old has never met you & never will. My 24 yr old, 18 yr old & 17 year old have no interest in having any relationship with you. This is what you lies have brought you. You have missed out on relationships with four beautiful grandchildren & a beautiful great granddaughter because you could not see past you hate & lies. My dad has not missed out on his grandchildren & great grandchildren.
Her post: My Daughter is The Captain of Her Shipip

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

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Check my blog out. I feel like I am in your dads shoes. Would love to hear more about your side so I could better understand what my boys deal with. It gets so hard to keep up the fight when everyone, even your kids, seems to be against you.

Keeley08 said...

I understand this completely, I myself have experienced this first hand. My mother was the same. I went 8 years without my father and his family because of her lies. I have only recently learnt the extent of her lies. I can honestly say the effect this has on a child is horrendous. No child should suffer that way.

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Einstein -

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome