I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Saturday, 6 August 2011

Is your child being with held from you? Here is reserch I did that may help you:)


If a parent is with holding your children from you & the judge has awarded you visitation rights then first off the parent is breaching the court order!

In most cases the judge will frown upon this. The Judge is the only one with the right to change the court order for visitation.

First you need to do a lot of reading & go to the family court building bring a motion & file a affidavit.
Help can be found here:

Other Links that may help:

APPLYING FOR AN ACCESS ENFORCEMENT ORDER
IN THE COURT OF QUEEN’S BENCH



AFFIDAVIT IN SUPPORT OF CLAIM FOR CUSTODY OR ACCESS

Obtaining Reliable and Repeatable SSAG Calculations

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines: Report on Revisions

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,
1985 (Part 1)

Judicial Interpretation of the Spousal and Child Support Provisions of the Divorce Act,
1985 (Part 11)

Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines



Carol Rogerson's Scholarly Papers (Family Law)
http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=88054

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court 

http://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/guides/fc/default.asp


Going To Court

Contempt of court


Divorse Articles

Complying with orders about children

Breaches (Contravention) & Enforcement of Parenting Orders

My ex-partner isn't following the court orders about our children What Can I Do?


What is a Parenting Order, its obligations, consequences and who can help you?

Child Access in Canada: Legal Approaches and Program Supports

ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD ABUSE IN THE CONTEXT OF PARENTAL SEPARATION: A DISCUSSION PAPER



Family Law Forms

Saint John Family Division List of Forms
Form 81A – Application (bilingual form)
Form 81B – Affidavit in Support of Claim for Custody or Access
Form 81C – Answer
Form 81D – Reply
Form 81F – Motion to Change
Form 81G – Change Information Form
Form 81H – Response to Motion to Change
Form 81I – Consent Motion to Change
Form 81J – Consent Motion to Change Child Support
Form 81K – Certificate of Solicitor
Form 81L – Notice of Motion for Leave to Appeal

Family Law Services in New Brunswick

Doing Your Own Divorce

Court-Ordered Evaluations Support Program (C-OESP)

Desertion


Grounds for Divorce: Abandonment or Desertion


FACTS EVERY ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DESERTION

DIVORCE LAW IN CANADA

family law talk radio podcasts

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search/family-law/

Supreme Court Self-help Resources (Videos etc...)


Dial-A-Law 
Canadian Bar Association

Family Law  Audio

A Guide to Procedures in Family Court



A Guide to a Successful Interview with a Lawyer

A Guide to Preparing Your Affidavit

Preparing Your Affidavit


Alternatives to Going to Court


Applications to Court




PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS OF FALSELY. ACCUSING PARENTS IN CUSTODY DISPUTES.

1 comment:

Dana said...

I just want to say thank you for sharing your story. It does give a perspective to those parents who are alienated from their children and are hopeful that one day their kids will grow to understand whats really going on & that their alienated parent is really a good parent along w/the extended family! My stepdaughter is 16 and hasnt been able to see her dad (my hubby) the way a child should for the last 10yrs! So far not getting any better. I started a new blog that over time I will be telling our story. I had created a blog for her & she was reading/enjoying it until her mom found out about it. Then she said it was "weird" Same thing her mom & family was saying. We've tried everything to stay/keep in touch w/her only to get knocked right back down each time it happens! This is a link to my blog, you may enjoy reading it! http://onlythe4ofus4.blogspot.com/ You are more than welcome to share w/your readers because I know there are so many people, like my husband, his daughter, you, & your dad who are going through the same thing. Again thanks for sharing your story!

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Einstein -

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome