I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Wednesday, 21 September 2011

Updates Coming December 2011

I will not be posting anything new until December after my friends court date. There will be lots I will have to post but all I have to say right now is that I am really tired of people that "lie" or "the ones that do not tell the whole truth" or "the ones that deny the truth" or "the ones that do not take responsibility for their actions...There is nothing I hate more than a liar. That says a lot about the persons character...This is not something that I wanted to get involved in but something that I felt I could not close my eyes & ignore...How many more kids have to deal with this crap...Those people that do wrong just keep getting away with it...I honestly feel like we are fighting a loosing battle:(


sad stepmom said...

My stepdaughter has been the victim of PAS and it is soo sad. We have been in court for the past 14 years, she has moved 15 times, moved out of state and at 13 moved for a year without telling us where. The PAS has left our daughter hating her father and she does not know why. There is a court order that is ignores and we are thousands in debt. Now we are giving up. The PAS has taking over our 14 year old and she will not reach out to talk, email, nothing. He mother is the most cruel woman in the world. She hides her phone, monitors her email and makes it so that we cannot communicate. What kind of person takes someones family away?

sad stepmom said...

I wish our daughter was as strong as you but unfortunately she isn't. No court order will work because her mom won't follow it. She'll schedule events on our time, then hope we make her break it. She hides her phone, monitors her email, and moved 15 times including two out of state with no communication. She verbally abuses our daughters dad. It's explainable. It is selfish behavior, the worst type possible. Who would take someones family away or a young girls dad.

BenandreSTAR said...

I'd like to say to you that Mothers , LOVING MOTHERS , that sacrifice every single thing they have , do without so their precious kids can HAVE , are victims too! For the life of me, I tried to keep that biblical "a soft answer turneth away wrath" My families way. Never ever talk about your ex to your kids. REALLY?? I tried that with my first two kids , all the abuse I went through, kept a soft answer, never said anything bad against but I'll be danged if I will sit here and go through the same thing with these younger two. My ex is such a control freak he controls their every move, Im not allowed to have any say in their life, he has tried to convince every one i dated or dated in the past, even my family how horrible "I AM" REALLY??? My two youngest now think they dont have to obey or respect one word I say. They can spend every holiday w him (who dont pay for it) and go to his events just because "he, the god" says. WHAT??? So it works two ways. Because his family has pull in the county , i cant get any help, not by the cops, nor the teachers, nor authorities. He broke into a storage unit with a cop and didnt even get a slap ! and then ? the cop got his job back!! WHY??? They committed a crime!! I sympathize with your "parental alieniation" but I have to tell you that more Mothers than you'll ever know go thru this even more!!! Eleven years and still bein controlled by the creep thats controlling and poisoning my kids minds.

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Einstein -

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome