I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Tuesday, 24 May 2011

Withholding Children from The Other Parent Is Child Abuse

Withholding Children from The Other Parent Is Child Abuse. Making up false accusations taking that child to social services to try to keep the child away from the other parent is child abuse. Putting your kids through this for no reason but your own selfish reasons is child abuse.  I have lost any respect that I might of had left for this person. Next time you are creeping around my neighbors house in the middle of the night up to no good like the last time I will be telling the police that I am 100% sure that it was you like I should of the last time but I didn't because you work with my kids father. You are the child abuser! What you are doing is abuse. You disgusted me. There has to be something wrong with you mentally to do that to your kids. To sit there & watch your kids missing their mom is heartless.

Also what is the point of wasting money going to court when the other parent obviously have some thing wrong with them mentally and treat judges ruling is a big joke. This parent is laughing @ the judge ruling. There need to be consequences! There should be jail time!

If It was a criminal getting out on bail or out on probation & they breach the court order what ever it may be they go to jail. So it should be the same for parents who breach a court order! There actions need to be dealt with appropriately. Other wise it is a ongoing thing that these kids are going through that will not end until they are grown up & on their own. Then it is too late for them to have their childhood back.  Not punishing these parents that breach court orders is contributing to these child's abuse. It is part of the problem that needs to be corrected! How many children have to loose their childhood to this neglect.


Fighting Back said...

Keeping a child from a parent makes no sense unless there are issues of abuse or neglect.

My two children have been kept from me by their mother for no reason other then to hurt me. She threatened to take them away from me when we were married and hide their whereabouts. When the counselor told her she couldn’t do that because I had rights she decided to use the court system to do her dirty work.

Once my ex had custody of the kids the stakes were raised. She has literally done everything to keep my children from me. She has literally captured their minds. My ex has basically placed my children in a parental alienation boot camp. She has torn them down and built them back up to fit her standards. Part of those standards are to hate me.

My point is that there is more then one way to keep a child from a parent. You can capture their body, their mind or both.

When a parent teaches their children to hate the other parent in a sense they are teaching the child to hate themselves. I came across a recent poem about this very issue and posted it on my blog at the following link


Eric Anderson said...

I am a father and this is all I deal with thank you so much for taking the time to write this out. It is so hard to deal with on a daily basis that I feel nobody understands.

Unknown said...

My daughter has guardianship of my 4 yr old grandson my sons son. She moved him out of state and i stayed w him all summer so she could travel. Now that im home im told i can speak to him sun at 7:45 to 8:00 pm only. She dont want him to speak to his father at all cuz he dont pay child support. Yes its wrong. He thinks cuz she has more than he does he dont have to pay. He says just give him back (not an option right now) wont this little boy grow up hating his aunt for jeeping him from mommy daddy n grandma?

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Einstein -

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome