I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Wednesday, 25 May 2011


1. A parent who unjustifiably punishes the divorcing or divorced other parent by:

1. Attempting to alienate their mutual child(ren) from the other parent

2. Involving others in malicious actions against the other parent

3. Engaging in excessive litigation

2. The parent specifically attempts to deny the child(ren):

1. Regular uninterrupted visitation with the other parent

2. Uninhibited telephone access to the other parent

3. Paternal participation in the child(ren)'s school life and extra-curricular activities

3. The pattern is pervasive and includes malicious acts towards the other parent including:

1. Lying to the children

2. Lying to others

3. Violations of law

4. The disorder is not specifically due to another mental disorder although a separate mental disorder may co-exist.

I revamped this because it is not exactly accurate...You do how ever see it happen more often to fathers but it happens to mothers as well...This abuse needs to stop...Actions need to be taken against these parents that are doing this to their children! The only way this is going to happen is if the courts start punishing the alienating parent. Other wise they can share the blame of innocent children being abused due to their neglect.
"You know the old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink". Well that goes the same as if you were to say "You can give a parent a court order but you can make him follow it". The only different is breaching the court order is against the law. These courts need to follow through & punish the parent that is breaching the court order. Throw them in jail & see how they like it & if that doesn't change their tune then throw them in jail again. It works for dogs they call it corrective training.

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The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome