I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Tuesday, 11 November 2008

Pretty bad when a mother will steal from her daughter!

When I was living at home I had a bank account. My mother took my money out of it & bought me a dresser that she still has & would not give to me. Also my sister inlaw let me borrow her negatives for the pictures of my wedding that she had taken & mom wanted to use them & has never given them back. That was over 10 years ago & when ever I ask her about them she says she can not find them. That is call stealing. Why would she want to keep these. They are not hers to keep they belong to my sister inlaw & she had asked for them back but I had to tell her that my mom said she can not find them in the mess of her house. They have picture of myself & my dad on there too.

The fact is mom is old enough to know that when you borrow something you are suppose to give it back & if you don't that is the same as stealing.

1 comment:

amanwhocares said...

When I was a child my mother would invade my space. She would arbitrarily come into my room and rake out anything she decided was not important to me. My mother, as a child, was the oldest of her family and shame based too. So was my father, the oldest and extrememly shame based. I hated what she would do. I think this space of mine was even more sacred to me because I had almost no love from either of them. They did not kow what love was because they never got any themselves. I was so numb as a child. It took me the better part of half my life to begin to become me. But to this day if someone steals from me, I think it punches some of these childhood buttons.

I say this to concur with you and to speak to parental alienation. I was attracted to alienators and two of them made babies on purpose. Thanks to Welfare Act and Welfare Reform. And probably thnaks to the so called prolife peple which these women in effect tuse in thier minds to justify (if necessary) their actions and the basis for them). That seems to be the way of America today for certain women. They have learned from our govermnent that Gov will go get the father and make him pay too and support their nefarious, cocnfused, demented desires.

My mother never got it that I was so hurt by her activities. Just like I guess the mothers of my two daughters have not gotten it how they have destroyed me and most likely my two duaghters ( saying this this way because they do not know me, the oldest, due to extreme alienation for all but 6 years of her life and the other, never.

"The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Einstein -

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome