I was born & raised in Saint John New Brunswick Canada...I could not have asked for a better dad, I wouldn't want any other dad...When I was little I remember my mom telling me that I would want to play with her ornaments & dad would let me & I guess I use to break them accidentally of course...Mom would always tell me how he let me play with them & that I broke them...Her good expensive ornaments... Well in grade one is when things went bad for mom & dad, so dad moved out & no matter what mom said she couldn't make me turn against my dad so it has been 33 years since I was born so I sagest mom stop trying to turn me against my dad because it isn't going to happen...Don't get me wrong mom wasn't all bad there were some good memories but too few... With dad my brother & I came first & with mom well after dad left she went all wired...Instead of being a good mother & just dealing with the break up, getting over it & moving on she had only one thing one her mind & that was to turn my down syndrome brother & I against my dad...This will never work with me & she hates me for that because I will not believe & go along with her lies...Even though she has kidnapped my brothers mind she can not kid nap his heart... I do wish I could have a relationship with my mom but how can I when she lies not only about my dad but about me...Just because I wouldn't go along with her lies she decided to make up some lies about me...What type of mother does that...For the life of me I can not even begin to understand how a mother or parent can do that to a child... When I was a little girl & still even now all I wanted was for my mother to just be a mother...I am sorry that dad leaving you cause you such mental disorder that you can not seem to grasp or hold on to reality...But every thing that comes out of your mouth is hurtful lies & how could you expect me to just stand there & let you do it...You could of had my help now that you going through another separation but lying & manipulating are more important to you than your own children...I can see that in your youngest son you already are brain washing him...It is not right no matter how things ended...If you ever decide to get real help maybe then I will talk to you again but if not then I guess we had our last words already...

Tuesday, 10 October 2006

My opinion on child support & accusations of fathers touching their kids...

My opinion on child support & accusations of fathers touching their kids when it comes to divorce & separation...

I am so tired of hearing accusations of fathers touching their kids when it comes to divorce & separation...My father even took a lie detector test & passed with flying colors not that he had any thing to prove to me in the first place but it was nice to shove in my mothers face...It wasn't useable in court...My idiot mother phones me up when we were talk but not to have a mother daughter talk but to try & brain wash me...she said to me do you remember when you told me your father took off your clothes...Oh did i ever go off the handle on her...she is so mentally disturbed & believe me if you spoke to her you could tell...She is vary manipulative & full of vengeance & out for my fathers blood because he cheated on her & left her...She need to get over it, it happens all the time & if their isn't kids involved then the persons involved move on get a new relationship & start over but I find when their are kids involved instead of moving on they hold on to all the anger & hate...It's no wonder her new husband that was a boarder at first cheated on her & left her too after he wrecked most of my childhood...He was nothing but a sponge that couldn't even buy his own bed instead used my fathers bed & lived off my father's child support & physically abused myself & my brother...I don't agree with child support because I moved in with my father when I was 15 after getting in a fist fight with my mother's boyfriend the child support that my mother was getting was $600 a month my father went out & bought a bigger house so that myself & my half brother could have our own room...I got the master bedroom my brother got the small room beside me & dad took the room downstairs...this is when the accusations started when I move out of my moms house...Getting the picture, she was mad obviously that I moved out & was always trying to get me to move back or move to my grandmothers house...So the child support was only cut back $100...So she was getting $500 for my down syndrome brother...I guess that means I was only worth $100 dollars in the family court system...So these are the facts family services let my mother have custody of us that was their first mistake...She has a weasel sponge move in that had a job but barely contributed any of his money to bills & living expenses... My mother had a job at some point she was working two jobs...I had to baby sit instead of going out with friends...I'm the one who was stuck doing most of the house work I would get beat by her lazy boyfriend that hardly did any thing around the house because he conveniently had all these aches & pains...So why wasn't my father getting child support from her when I moved in with him? I think If one child lives with each parent then their shouldn't be any child support either way! So we only lived their for about a year & my father was working at the mill & they went on strike...He only got a strike pay witch wasn't vary much...We ended up loosing the house & moved to a apartment...Finally when he was back to work my greedy mother goes after him for back time for payment...That is all she is about is trying to make my father miserable & money money money...She should not have got a penny after all I was living there & he was on strike for I think it was like a year or maybe half a year I will have to ask him to be sure...Hypothetically If me & my husband ever split I wouldn't want child support so yes I am anti child support...It takes two to make it & two to break it & it is just something else used to try to hurt the other parent...Then their is the court payments witch my father has forked out thousands & thousands of dollars while my mom cry's to the courts & gets a free layer...This is injustice!
The Angry Daughter·Parental Alienation Syndrome

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The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome

The Angry Daughter - PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome